The flowers are blooming, the sun is shining, and nighttime is finally starting to come later. To help you make the most out of these growing days of May, check out this issue of American Lifestyle, which is filled with refreshing ideas to spark inspiration. From getting active on the green or at the beach to enjoying time-honored traditions, there’s plenty to explore this month.
Take a swing at a healthier you by hitting the golf course. Whether you're walking the fairways or simply practicing your putt, this sport offers an unbeatable combination of physical fitness, mental stimulation, and social interaction. Read the article inside to see exactly how grabbing your clubs can sharpen both your body and mind.
Looking to unwind by the water? Head to Sheboygan, Wisconsin, where sandy beaches meet vibrant culture and the gentle waves of Lake Michigan provide a refreshing break from the day-to-day. In the enclosed guide, you'll find a breakdown of the various outdoor activities this city has to offer, making it the ideal laid-back getaway for summer.
As Memorial Day approaches, reflect on the rich history of honoring our nation’s heroes, which goes all the way back to before the Civil War. Discover the oldest holiday parades across the country, where communities come together to commemorate those who gave all.
For those gathering around the grill, look inside for two recipes that will bring bold flavors to your next cookout. Fire up the barbecue to try the zesty corn, bacon, and kale salad or the savory fish tacos with chipotle sauce—both perfect for impressing guests and satisfying taste buds.
Here’s to making the most of the sunshine! As always, it's a pleasure to send you this magazine.
There’s nothing quite like the serenity of a golf course—the quiet whirring of the carts zooming by, the fresh whack of a driver hitting a ball straight ahead, and the clinking of a long putt as it bounces against the rim of a hole.
Golf has proven to be more than just these enjoyable moments, however. Few other sports can match its combination of light aerobic exercise, mental engagement, and social connectivity, whether you’re tackling a full course, practicing at a driving range, or enjoying a simple round of mini golf. If you’re looking for more of an excuse to work on your handicap, take a peek at some of the primary advantages this game has to offer.
Although perhaps less demanding than high-impact sports, golf still has many significant physical benefits, especially on a full course. For one, between the walking and repeatedly engaging in powerful swings, you can significantly increase your cardiovascular fitness, in turn lowering your blood sugar levels, improving your lung function, and supporting the overall functionality of your heart. Want to multiply this upside? Forgo a cart—on a standard eighteen-hole course, for instance, you’ll end up walking between three to eight miles, burning up to 1,200 calories.
Further, carrying your clubs yourself and driving the ball forcefully may strengthen your upper body. The former exerts your shoulders, arms, and back, while the repeated swinging motion works your core muscles. This movement can also help improve balance, agility, and flexibility, all of which are important for reducing injury risk and maintaining physical well-being as you age. In fact, a study by the American Heart Association tracking nearly 6,000 adults with an average age of seventy-two who hit the links once a month found that the death rate among the golfers versus nongolfers was 10 percent lower.
Whatever type you prefer, the benefits of golf extend far beyond its physical form—often overlooked are its equally valuable psychological upswings. Perhaps the biggest impact is on mental health. Sports in general have a tremendous ability to help reduce anxiety and depression symptoms thanks to the release of endorphins and lowering of stress hormones, and with it requiring great patience and concentration, golf may be particularly effective at easing the pressure of daily life and providing a mood boost. (The key, of course, is to try not to get caught up in the rigor of competition or the frustration of an imperfect shot.) Not to mention that it gets you out in nature, which various research has shown to have a positive impact on your mental state. By spending even just an hour under the bright blue sky amid the fresh air and idyllic green landscape, you’re sure to leave feeling more refreshed.
Golf also delivers excellent cognitive benefits by challenging the brain. With each stroke, the sport requires its players to use strategic and critical thinking to measure distances, judge topography, and more, all to assess the perfect shot. Such mental stimulation can go a long way toward keeping your mind sharp and possibly slowing cognitive decline. A study published by BMJ Open Sport & Exercise Medicine found that exercises like golf can maintain or even improve attention and processing speed in older adults. Tee up, and you may be actively promoting your brain functioning even as you enjoy a fun, low-stress activity.
Sports are some of the best avenues for strengthening bonds and forging new connections, but perhaps none is as conducive to social interaction as golf. Individuals can delight in friendly competition while still having opportunities talk between strokes and hole changes, allowing them to get to know one another and have meaningful conversations without the pressure of having to focus entirely on each other. Such a dynamic can facilitate all sorts of relationships, whether you’re catching up with family, working through a disagreement, or even networking for business—after all, how many deals over the decades have been solidified after a day on the green?
As for making friends, golf is a great way to meet new people since many players tee off in groups or share scheduled tee times. Even at a driving range, you can easily meet fellow enthusiasts looking to share their tips and tricks or simply make idle chatter as you work side by side on improving your swings. Moreover, golf is an intergenerational sport—anyone can play it regardless of age or skill level thanks to its low-intensity nature and basic gameplay. If you’re an older adult, you can enjoy the game with your children or grandchildren, either on a full course or a mini one, or you may simply cross paths with those from other age groups as you play through your round. In both cases, these interactions can help bridge the divide between generations and provide everyone with valuable new perspectives that they may have never considered before.
While golf may often be regarded as an expensive sport, it can be relatively accessible thanks to municipal and public courses that offer lower rates, with driving ranges and mini golf courses providing cost-effective alternative options as well. So whether you’re a seasoned player or are just considering picking up the game, book your time slot and experience all the rewards that make golf a potential pathway to a healthier lifestyle.
Sheboygan calls itself the “Malibu of the Midwest,” and it’s easy to see why—despite being situated in characteristically chilly Wisconsin, come summer this city features warm waters that lap against sandy shores under the bright sun. But you’ll find no mere West Coast imitation here. Rather, the area marries irresistible and distinctive landlocked beaches with lush forests, family-friendly adventures, and a unique ’Scansin culture all its own. If you’re looking for the ideal spot to catch some rays and tread new ground, Sheboygan might just have everything you’re seeking in one destination.
Sitting just an hour north of Milwaukee and two and a half hours north of Chicago, Sheboygan may be easy to overlook or underestimate. But with a population of just under 50,000, it offers a more relaxed pace while still featuring similar perks as its bigger neighbors: most notably, an ocean-like setting upon Lake Michigan, where consistently dramatic waves have carved out plentiful beaches to tempt surfers and boaters alike. And because summer temperatures generally top out in the seventies, excursions here feel fresh and invigorating rather than staggeringly hot.
If you’re wondering where to plant your umbrella or your surfboard for a day in the sun, you have plenty of options to choose from right within steps of the city. Consider the popular King Park, which offers a playground for kids along with picnic tables and grills for the ultimate cookout, or venture to sandy Deland Park to lie back with a book, take your shot at the waves, or partake in a thrilling game on its volleyball courts. You could even bring your fishing pole down the nearby breakwall toward the iconic Breakwater Lighthouse, a century-old monument that rises out of the backdrop of Lake Michigan’s blue waters. Once you reach this structure, make sure to turn around and savor the panoramic views of Sheboygan’s beaches, skyline, and resort hotels.
For more remote shorelines beyond the urban bustle, head south from the city streets to Kohler-Andrae State Park. This natural preserve features dramatic dunes, inland pine forests, and campgrounds that invite you to rest and enjoy picnics in sight of the Great Lake.
The beaches may be Sheboygan’s biggest draw, but you’re spoiled for choice of other nature experiences—the area lays claim to over seven hundred acres of parks both within the city and on its outskirts. Among its most unique options is Bookworm Gardens, a whimsical botanical park inspired by children’s literature that’s sure to charm the young and young at heart. Its grounds showcase vibrant plant life and are themed around such stories as “Hansel and Gretel” and The Secret Garden. For another leisurely way to take in the local scenery, rent a private pontoon to cruise with your loved ones down the Sheboygan River, noting the forested shores, charming beach houses, and other breathtaking sights as they pass.
Then again, if you prefer to spend your time outdoors with a putter and a pair of khakis, you’re in luck. The Sheboygan area offers seven locations where you can hit the links, including the charming manor grounds at the Bull at Pinehurst Farms, Wisconsin’s only Jack Niklaus Signature golf course. Whistling Straits, meanwhile, frequently hosts major golf championships—such as the Ryder Cup in 2021—on its lush, rolling lakefront hills, making it a privilege to visit. (Just note that players should reserve a spot in advance within thirty days of their desired tee time.)
If you’re seeking the chance to dally among Sheboygan’s friendly locals, the South Pier District is a must-visit. A waterfront region hugging both the Sheboygan River and Lake Michigan, it features a maritime-themed miniature golf course, many places to book fishing charters, and even the historic Lottie Cooper Shipwreck. Various restaurants and boutique shops also line these promenades, making them ideal for a midday stroll away from the surf and sand.
In the heart of South Pier, art aficionados can delight in the John Michael Kohler Arts Center, which displays a rotating collection of astounding contemporary works, hosts talks with leading artists, and invites visitors to contribute to a massive public art piece in its Social STUDIO. Equally intriguing is Kohler’s secondary campus on the west side of town, the Art Preserve. With its cascading timber panels and a facade of local river rock, the contemporary structure encapsulating these masterpieces is itself worthy of a sightseeing visit. Then once you step inside, you can enjoy its permanent collection of folk art, historic artifacts, and modern works.
To truly make the most of your Sheboygan adventure, you can’t go wrong with a reservation at the ultrapopular Blue Harbor Resort. Perfectly balancing serenity and thrills, the hotel provides luxurious rooms with nautical-inspired interiors and lake views, top-rated restaurants, a rejuvenating onsite spa, boutique shops, and so much more. Perhaps most enticing, though, is its enormous indoor water park (open only on weekends until the end of May before switching to full hours for summer). Whether you choose to lie back and ride the lazy river, challenge your dexterity on the surf simulator, or enjoy a romantic meal for two against the Sheboygan sunset, Blue Harbor is a true indulgence for the senses.
However, this certainly isn’t the only option worthy of consideration. If you’d prefer resting in a more traditional hotel atmosphere, reserve a spot at the sophisticated Watershed Hotel, which is nestled just steps away from the beach. Or consider any of the available waterfront vacation rentals for a more intimate stay that provides all the comforts of home alongside stunning views.
Though Sheboygan may sit in the shadow of its larger neighbor cities, it’s a worthy destination of its own, both for its exciting outdoor excursions as well as its one-of-a-kind culture. Rather than a bustling metropolis or tropical resort, the Malibu of the Midwest instead wraps enticing sights and adventures into a cozier, friendlier, and more affordable package, making it an alluring summer getaway to suit any traveler’s tastes.
Countries around the world have a long history of remembering their fallen soldiers, and America is no different. At the end of May each year, cities and towns across the nation organize Memorial Day events, the most popular being parades featuring processions of cars and marching bands traveling down long streets while residents cheer from the sidelines and wave Old Glory. Learn more about the history of this tradition turned holiday, and discover which places have been holding their accompanying parades the longest.
Memorial Day’s origins go all the way back to the nineteenth century, when citizens would periodically engage in “decorating days” that involved cleaning and placing flowers on service members’ graves. But the custom became especially common during the Civil War’s waning year and in those that followed. Several accounts detail decorating days being held for this conflict in the mid-1860s, such as in cities like Charleston, South Carolina, Boalsburg, Pennsylvania, and Waterloo, New York (the latter of which would be recognized by Congress in 1966 as the birthplace of Memorial Day).
The first official commemoration would soon follow. On May 5, 1868, a Union-based veterans’ organization, the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR), formally declared that Decoration Day would be held on May 30 as a nationwide day of remembrance. Though only a one-off event, many places were inspired to make it an annual tradition, with some like New York and the District of Columbia even declaring it a legal holiday before the end of the century.
During this time, a new custom was also emerging: people were increasingly calling the occasion Memorial Day. So in 1882, the GAR recommended making the switch to the colloquial usage, and by the end of World War II, the new name had taken over. Then in 1971, over a century after its introduction, the day finally became a federal holiday to be held on the last Monday of every May.
Parades honoring deceased military heroes—as well as active service members and retired veterans—have been convened since the inception of Decoration Day, if not longer. Here are some of the ones that date back the farthest and what they do each year to revere those who gave all.
Brooklyn, New York (1867)
Honoring over 100,000 New York City veterans, this long-time event is considered the oldest large-city Memorial Day parade in the nation. This year, the 158th version will once again take place in the Bay Ridge neighborhood, traversing several blocks before landing at Cannonball Park for a service that includes bagpipes, the laying of wreaths, a twenty-one-gun salute by the Veterans Corps of Artillery, and the playing of “Taps.”
Doylestown, Pennsylvania (1868)
An estimated 15,000 people attend this parade in southeastern Pennsylvania—nearly double the city’s population. In recent years, it has gone above and beyond by providing a dedicated viewing area, complete with tents, for veterans and their families to enjoy the event. In 2024, the world-famous Budweiser Clydesdales were even part of the convoy.
Grafton, West Virginia (1868)
The West Virginia Memorial Day Parade was dubbed “Flower Strewing Day” a year after it began, not taking up the current moniker until 1882. It will have a new twist in 2025: for the first time in over a century, there will be a new parade route to better accommodate the throngs that attend.
Ironton, Ohio (1868)
Located along the Ohio River in the southernmost part of the state, Ironton sees over 30,000 people come out to cheer the Ironton-Lawrence County Memorial Day Parade’s 2,000 participants. Each year, it also lines its street with over 270 flags to honor county residents lost in war.
Malvern, Pennsylvania (1869)
Travel about forty miles southwest of Doylestown, and you can catch Malvern’s annual Memorial Parade on Philadelphia’s Main Line. Traditionally held the Sunday after the holiday (June 1 this year), it is followed by a commemoration ceremony at the Paoli Memorial Grounds that dates back even farther: to 1817.
Rochester, Wisconsin (1867)
Situated between Milwaukee and Chicago, the village of Rochester continues its long-standing parade traditions of a white horse leading the procession, residents gathering and placing flowers on soldiers’ graves, and, perhaps most unique, officials lowering a wreath into the Fox River to remember those who gave their lives.
Sharpsburg, Maryland (1867)
This small town in western Maryland—with a population of just around 700—is historically important, being the site of the Battle of Antietam, the deadliest day ever in America. It holds its parade the Saturday before Memorial Day; this year’s theme is “250 Years of Sacrifice and Service” to honor the founding of the armed forces.
Westminster, Maryland (1868)
About sixty miles northeast of Sharpsburg, you’ll find the city of Westminster, whose event, the Memorial Day Remembrance Parade and Observance Ceremony, has certainly grown over the years. However, it started with the humblest origins: when activist Mary Bostwick Shellman led schoolchildren down to Westminster Cemetery to place freshly cut flowers upon Civil War soldiers’ graves.
Wilmington, Delaware (1868)
Like a couple of others on this list, this parade held in the First State’s largest city opts to follow a different schedule. Rather than on the holiday itself, it takes place on May 30 each year to honor the original GAR proclamation. The event ends at the Soldiers and Sailors Monument, a notable circa 1871 column.
These Memorial Day celebrations have spanned generations, linking the end of the Civil War to the present day. They stand as tributes to the organizers’ and volunteers’ ongoing dedication through the years to a worthy cause—commemorating America’s fallen soldiers. Whether your local parade is a few centuries old, a few decades old, or only a few years old, be sure to attend, cheer, and pay your respects as you show your appreciation for our country’s war heroes.
Get ready to fire up your barbecue! Grill masters and beginners alike can easily impress friends and family with these two fresh and flavorful recipes from Oscar Smith’s The BBQ Companion. Perfect for backyard get-togethers, these dishes will take any cookout to a whole new level.
Lime dressing, jalapeño, and pepitas bring a bold richness to this mouthwatering medley of healthy greens and veggies.
These tasty handheld delights are packed with tender fish, smoky spice, vibrant herbs, and tart lime, offering satisfaction from all directions.
Recipes from The BBQ Companion: 50 Recipe cards for Grilling Perfection by Oscar Smith. Smith Street Gift, 2023. Photography © Billy Law
recipe by oscar smith
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Craving a salad that strikes the perfect chord? This recipe harmonizes light greens, crispy bacon, charred corn, crunchy pepitas, and a fiery jalapeño-lime dressing into one delicious masterpiece. No matter what main dish you’re serving, it makes an ideal accompaniment everyone will enjoy.
Serves 4 as a side
recipe by oscar smith
photos by billy law
Step up your next taco night with this recipe, which features cool veggies and mild fish dressed in a spicy chipotle dressing. The result? A perfectly balanced mix of flavors that will hit just the spot.
Serves 4–6